This episode was very heavy and quite difficult to create because of the current climate in America. We as Nigerians living in America are by no means insulated from the racial prejudices that come with the color of our skin. If you have ever listened to any of our episodes then we don't have to explain any further how we feel about any and all white supremacist ideals, actions, and rhetoric, as well as racial discrimination. On that note, we just want to express this; all lives don't matter until black lives matter. This is the second part of a two-part episode (see part one on the dual podcast "Who's really the catch"), we lost the first recording and had to do it again. This is very different from how the conversation went the first time but it only felt right to let the conversation flow naturally. We talk a little bit about how women are prepped for marriage versus how men are prepped for marriage...or not prepped...